About Honored Wishes Consulting
Fifteen years ago - I was tragically widowed with no warning. There were no preparations, plans, last wishes or Final expense insurance pre-arranged. I was only 44, but was suddenly thrust into attempting to figure how to pay for an "inexpensive" cremation. He wanted to go out like a Viking, so I did the best I could.
My friends, family and extended family help set up a "Go Fund Me", before Go Fund Me was a thing. The state of Massachusetts paid $188 and Social Security paid their one time Widow allowance that I signed over to the Funeral home directly. There was no service, but a pot luck Dumb Dinner and birthday cake to celebrate my husband. We shared pictures and stories, tears and laughter. He passed 4 days before his 46th birthday and we received his ashes in time for his Birthday/Celebration of Life "party". My closest and such wonderful friends bought the urn that he rests in.