About Honored Wishes Consulting

Fifteen years ago - I was tragically widowed with no warning.   There were no preparations, plans, last wishes or Final expense insurance pre-arranged.  I was only 44, but was suddenly thrust into attempting to figure how to pay for an "inexpensive" cremation.   He wanted to go out like a Viking, so I did the best I could.

My friends, family and extended family help set up a "Go Fund Me", before Go Fund Me was a thing.  The state of Massachusetts paid $188 and Social Security paid their one time Widow allowance that I signed over to the Funeral home directly.  There was no service, but a pot luck Dumb Dinner and birthday cake to celebrate my husband. We shared pictures and stories, tears and laughter.  He passed 4 days before his 46th birthday and we received his ashes in time for his Birthday/Celebration of Life "party".   My closest and such wonderful friends bought the urn that he rests in.